By Angelina Diana
Special to CT.com
3:42 PM EDT, June 11, 2012
I need your help. I feel lost and like I have been booted out of my social circle. How do I change this. I feel like I am grieving.
Tammy from Wethersfield
As a medium who work with the otherside, I have seen my share of how the living
grieve their loved ones. Everyone is different. A loss of friend, family and even a job is no different. So you will need to be good to yourself during this time and use it to highlight what is great about you and ignore what you think you lack because you cannot be a part of "the group."
I have learned that when we hit a wall in the physical world and it says "no" to us. We need to, sometimes, see that as a gift. Take a moment to reflect why you feel so strongly to be a part of that energy, then create a personal passion that will surround you with the friends you are meant to be with. Your initial attraction to be with the original crowd was probably being shown to you to ignite a passion, a stepping stone of sorts, to be a part of something new. Energy is all around and the idea of having friends in our life can be a strong one but sometimes they are meant to lift us up to a certain level so we can see above ad beyond to our next set of social events. Thank them for being a part of your life and show gratitude that you had them for the time you did. Breathe and move on!
I sense you to be a very healing and also intelligent woman! Please honor that.
Together in the journey,
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