Dear Angelina, I listen to you on the radio and appreciate the kindness and wisdom. Can you help me with a question about soul mates. I am so confused. How can I feel so connected to two men. I am with my boyfriend for 5 years and now I met someone and I can not stop thinking of him. Can you have more than one soul mate. We connect in a way that I have never felt. We have conversations and exchanges that make me feel like I have known him for years. I am trying NOT to get drawn to him physical but it is starting to be a struggle. How can this be that I feel for my boyfriend and now feel the same if not more intensity with my new "friend".
Thank you Maggie
I believe that you can have more than one soul mate. The question to ask is did you feel that same pull with your boyfriend of 5 years? If you did not I am not saying you should leave him. I feel it just illustrates that we can feel automatically drawn to someone for many reasons. We could have the same energy and spiritually they were sent to us..... and us to them.... to helps us through this hard life.Ssometimes it can mean that we did have a romantic relationship with them in another lifetime. I personally feel that it is rare to feel that dramatic pull towards someone more than one time. I only say that because that has been my experience. I have only felt it once and it has been a fairly new experience for me. So I do not know how to be in this situation either. So I will share with you what I know.....so far.
How you decide to express that connection is a physical world decision that you have to make as an adult but I do believe that people come into your live for a reason and because life can be hard in this physical world- The timing of it should not be questioned but rather celebrated!
If you are drawn together, talk about parallels in your life that the two of you share and you may decide to make this person a deep friend for life and/or you may decide to make them a lover/romatic partner as well. Some folks believe like I do , that this person might have had a stronger connection to you in another lifetime. That they are part of a bigger circle of energy you will learn about after you cross over.
So I feel that the pull and draw towards them should, be honored in some way. Some people in my field do not agree with that statement only because it can muddy up some of your current connections. That is what is happening to you. You are confused. Maybe because you love your boyfriend and the feelings of the sexual draw towards the new man is scaring you. You are afraid that you will be unfaithful. In that case, you should be careful about how much time you spend with the new connection.
The biggest challenge for you sounds like your physical attraction to him. That is a hard one to overcome. The best thing to do is honor the help , guidance and trust that you are building with all of your soul mates. Feel fortunate that you have the attraction in your life. Let them know that you appreciate them as a person in the world. Take the support and connection as it comes into your life. It is there because you need it. Try to use what this new person is giving you to enhance your current relationship. I sense you to be a smart girl and that you current relationship is a little stale. Spice things up girl! The answer will come to you soon. PLEASE give me feedback on this. I want to be sure I helped you.
Thanks for the kind words